WHY BLAME CIRCUMSTANCES?

 

Circumstances in life.

 

People are funny. They are impossible. We all know about them. People have the tendency to blame all sorts of circumstances for their shortcoming.   People believe in luck. Many of them are a bundle of inconsistency. They jump the fence in no time where there is chance. They change like a weathercock. They are simply impossible.

It is agreed that luck plays a role in a man’s life. It is not true to credit or to blame luck hundred percent.  To blame luck or circumstances wholly, for man’s failure or success is preposterous.

Ninety- percent perspiration and ten- percent inspiration is the proper ratio. People always blame circumstances for their ups and downs.  Alone circumstances are not responsible.  He has to put in his best efforts and mind.  People always consider circumstances responsible for their failure or success. We see this factor everywhere.  Circumstances are not responsible for man’s ups and downs to the extent they are given blame, or credit. It is our weakness if we blamed circumstances for our failure.

 

People shield themselves by quoting circumstances that caused their ups or downs. They hide themselves behind them.  People quote different circumstances the way they want them to be. We all know about it.  They are sob-sisters who grumble constantly.  People, if they can not find circumstances, they make circumstances to support their case. 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

She was responsible for her circumstances. Her hasty nature was responsible for the mess.  She wanted to change her circumstances. She had ceased to believe in luck, or miracles.  Not that she had actually believed in miracles.  She was a rationalist.  She had strong opinion about things.  Human being is a rational animal. She had always agreed with her mother’s remark who when once had asked her if she believed in luck, miracles. She had said:

She:   “No, I am worried of them.”

 

Yet, his entrance in her life had been a miracle. By  sheer luck he happened to stumble unto her. She felt she had over-reacted to his proposal. At the relevant time, she flew in air in search of a prince charming from the sky.  She rejected him in a state of her being a bundle of tension. Her vanity, pride, was responsible for her behaving in such a way. She had rejected his approach without understanding the consequence. She felt she had closed the gate for further acquaintance. Her every quivering nerve was exposed. Her mechanism of automatic response to his advancement was anger, flight. Now she felt she was hasty. She should not have closed the door. She should have kept her options open. She had now waited with dumb wonderment. She was involved in suspense. Her breaking up like that was like a slap to him. It brought him to his senses. Circumstances were responsible for making them behave the way they behaved.  It was a case of pride and prejudice between the two. Both were responsible for each other. He too was quite curt and obstinate and careless if, not callous on his part.

 

 

 

 

 

She was on a look out for a separate house for her in an attempt to change circumstances. It was time to get out of the old place and take a chance. “Change your place, Change your luck!”