WHAT A WOMAN REALLY WANTS IS LOVE AND COMPASSION.
Sex to a woman is less important.
It does not mean that women are not as
interested in sex as men.
The basic reason a male marries, is because
he wishes to possess the woman sexually.
On the other hand a female does not marry
her man because she wishes to be possessed sexually by him. In her idea about physical love, she is a
passive partner.
A woman marries for security, social
status, recognition, children, companionship.
She desires normal sexual relation as every
husband and wife would dream of.
In some cases the woman does not achieve
sexual relation with her man.
She does not resort to extreme measure like
divorce, another lover, bottle and so on.
If
physical love is not realised, she kills her sex-instinct. She suffers but survives the emotional
effect. She sublimates her needs in
other area like children, home, social life and so on.
On
the other hand, if a man does not find sexual attachment, he feels his life
wasted. He drinks, gambles and even has extra-marital affair also.
Men have created a fictional world about
women.
“They are fragile and shall wither in due
course of time.
But, verse, it is verse it gives immortal
youth to mortal maids.”
The story-tellers, novels, magazines, TV
serials,
have exaggerated her role in sex-matters.
She is depicted
as a sex-hunter, sex-maniac and she is
projected as bodies hungry of
sex-love. It is said, nothing is enough for
her. These are exaggerations.
She wavers, she hesitates.
Love and love scandals are the best tea
sweeteners.
Nothing is so delicate as the reputation of
a woman.
The men-writers love to project their woman
character
who responds erotically and without
inhibition.
The lady characters have performed their
role in such
books, films, magazine, TV serial as
directed by the Director.
In reality, the normal woman is quite the
opposite.
She has been wrongly projected by the
male-community.
Women can take sex or leave it. They do not anticipate or day-dream.
It is the men who anticipate and day-dream.
The women are not stimulated to see nude or
semi-nude men.
They are not over-come by virile handsome
men.
They know that men have placed high premium
for them.
So they just go along. That’s all.
They are not in it.
They do not disapprove of it also.
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