Sunday, April 10, 2011

A Woman wants Love.

Sex to a woman is less important.
It does not mean that women are not as interested in sex as men.
The basic reason a male marries, is because he wishes to possess the woman sexually.
On the other hand a female does not marry her man because she wishes to be possessed sexually by him. In her idea about physical love, she is a passive partner.
A woman marries for security, social status, recognition, children, companionship.
She desires normal sexual relation as every husband and wife would dream of.
In some cases the woman does not achieve sexual relation with her man.
She does not resort to extreme measure like divorce, another lover, bottle and so on.
If physical love is not realised, she kills her sex-instinct. She suffers but survives the emotional effect. She sublimates her needs in other area like children, home, social life and so on.
On the other hand, if a man does not find sexual attachment, he feels his life wasted. He drinks, gambles and even has extra-marital affair also.
Men have created a fictional world about women.
“They are fragile and shall wither in due course of time.
But, verse, it is verse it gives immortal youth to mortal maids.”
The story-tellers, novels, magazines, TV serials,
have exaggerated her role in sex-matters. She is depicted
as a sex-hunter, sex-maniac and she is projected as bodies hungry of
sex-love. It is said, nothing is enough for her. These are exaggerations.
She wavers, she hesitates.
Love and love scandals are the best tea sweeteners.
Nothing is so delicate as the reputation of a woman.

The men-writers love to project their woman character
who responds erotically and without inhibition.
The lady characters have performed their role in such
books, films, magazine, TV serial as directed by the Director.

In reality, the normal woman is quite the opposite.
She has been wrongly projected by the male-community.
Women can take sex or leave it. They do not anticipate or day-dream.
It is the men who anticipate and day-dream.

The women are not stimulated to see nude or semi-nude men.
They are not over-come by virile handsome men.

They know that men have placed high premium for them.
So they just go along. That’s all. They are not in it.
They do not disapprove of it also.

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